Over the course of this class I have definitely learned a lot about myself, my culture, and my family. But I feel that this last week and working on the family history was when my interest in this class really took off.
I find myself very lucky to be who I am, and live in the family that I do. After completing the family history I really found out how much the world around me makes me who I am. It really got me to reflect on how I make the decisions I do. If I think back to what my ancestors had to deal with it really makes me think about how easy we have it today. Through my life my family has instilled some standing values that I will take with me for the rest of my life, and these same values were the ones my grandparents instilled in my parents. My parents have always been ones to provide for there children, and that’s how my grandparents are. Our family has always had the opportunities to find jobs and excel in society. One thing that I feel that my family has always had going for them was that they have always lived in up and coming communities of the time. This really helped our families flourish because they provided us with a safe area to grow up in. And if you asked me I think living in safety might be the most important thing a family can have.
One privilege that I feel I inherited for the generation before me was really one that was evident throughout high school. Since my brother and sisters all attended the same high school I did, years before, the high school community pushed me to be the best I could be. Because all my brother and sisters were so successful the teachers and administrators who remembered my older siblings expected the same from me. No matter what situation came across my high school community really kept and eye on me and never let me fall behind. I think that this was such a huge advantage for me because it instilled such a great work ethic in me and a pivotal time in my life. Without this occurring in my life I really cannot see myself being where I am today.
For some really when my family history comes up and when I learned my ideals I can’t stop thinking about my years in high school. My family was very engaged in my high school community even before I was a student there. During this time I feel that my parents really started to try and turn me into a successful human being. The best thing about this time in my life was being in the diverse make up of my high school, which included all races. This was the first time I was really put into this situation and I hit the ground running. And since it was a catholic high school they did there best to ensure that we were all on an equal playing field. I think that these were the four most important years of my life. And I thank God every day for them.